Honey. You DESPISE your husband. It is so obvious in the choice of the language that you use to describe him and what he does. He’s in the “background.” He’s “stagnating” at his work. He’s a “regular employee.”

I learned years ago, fortunately in time to save my marriage, that resentment is the relationship killer. You both should have communicated more directly with each other years ago before the resentment turned into full-on hate, because I see the biggest problem here is that you have no respect for your husband. At the end of the article you try and turn it around and blame society, and definitely we live in a sexist society, but you need to take some responsibility for not communicating with your husband back when it might’ve made a difference.