I am a child of divorce and I think that if your adult children are speaking so candidly about your ex-husband in front of you, it’s because they trust you, and because they assume that you know that your behavior was nowhere near as egregious as his. I find it HIGHLY unlikely that they sit with their dad and talk about you this way, and I bet if you asked them point-blank, that’s exactly what they’d tell you. ❤️