I have wondered a lot if I might be anorexic. I’ve taken several online quizzes about it and I exhibit many of the traits except that I’m not thin. I don’t binge and purge, but I do obsess about my weight and my food and my calorie consumption and I count calories religiously. I don’t believe in losing weight at all costs because if I lose weight too rapidly then it will just come back. So I have accepted that I will have to restrict my calories the rest of my life in order to have healthy weight loss and maintenance. That part doesn’t sound anorexic, or does it? I don’t know. I do know that many anorexic behaviors are celebrated in women who are overweight.