I’m glad you’re both making progress this way. My dad was the yeller in my family, and it gave me a strong aversion to having anyone yell at me (and I don’t yell either). College boyfriend used to yell at me for stupid mistakes like spilling food or losing a $20 bill. But my husband does not yell, and it’s so much better. It’s so much better to be able to share my mistakes with him and have them be treated with concern and care instead of with anger.