My first instinct is to say who the hell who cares what you’re attracted to? Why should some woman feel “special” because she checks some box in your head? I don’t wear make up and if that is one of the first things a guy says to me I am fucking done with him. What if I walked up to you and said “hey you look like you have a job and that’s attractive to me” — wouldn’t you think I’m probably a superficial gold digger?