Red flag! Your lack of driving experience combined with his controlling tendencies could add up to a very unpleasant situation for you in the next few years. On one hand it’s understandable that he’d want to know where you are, with such a young child, but you certainly shouldn’t ask his permission. My husband works long hours to but when I go out I just text him hey I’m going to the store or wherever I’m going and then I run my errands. And that bullshit with the computer password, what the hell?? you definitely should not have to ask him to use the computer and the fact that he is being so weird about sharing the password with you is another red flag. What is he hiding?