You are a dinosaur. And that's not a reference to your age, but to your attitude. You feel that you are entitled to speak to beautiful women. You feel that if you speak to them, they are obligated to speak to you. Any pushback and you start insulting, like the "sharp tongue" comment. Yawn. Frankly it's better to live with cats than deal with outdated sexism like yours.

As for where to approach women, dating apps. That's where women indicate that they are available and looking.